The Puzzlement of Cats
The aloofness often attributed to cats
is, I think, puzzlement about domesticity.
They haven't been at it as long as dogs,
and aren't sure how to take us.
They know they aren't supposed to eat us,
that we respond to shrill, pleading sounds,
that we feed them; they may come to need us,
but often don't get friendship, love, exchange.
Not that they're stupid,
but they haven't had to give,
because we accept as ample exchange
for our love their grace, dexterity and intensity.
Our cat is like a woman who since infancy,
has always been called beautiful –
expecting from everyone (assuming it
to be conventional politeness)
what some young man offers
as his heart. If he protests too much,
she looks at him with the same puzzlement
we get from our cat, and, after tolerating
a brief kiss, begins to comb her hair,
as our cat, after allowing a few caresses,
begins to lick herself. If he persists,
she will do what the cat does – in human fashion.
What the cat does is grapple my hand
in two paws – or sometimes all four (at first
it seems an embrace), then begin to bite it,
gently at first, then a bit too energetically
to allow it to escalate. The girl probably
says something noncommittal,
and if he demands clarification,
says something cruel.
But both, behind hard eyes, are puzzled.
Dean
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